Best Sex Positions for Clitoral Stimulation
Nothing is more horrifying than when women confess to me that they have never had an orgasm or they’ve only had little orgasms and have no idea what it means to see the sun, moons, stars and the mountains during sex.
The reality is only 33% have orgasms from intercourse alone. Most women need direct clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. [This is why I strongly recommend that any man who says he doesn’t “lick the kitty” needs to immediately be placed in the friend box never to be heard from again.]
Obviously, oral sex will get the job done, but there are several sexual positions that can get you to the mountaintop without relying on your man’s tongue alone:
Rear Entry Sex Positions
Virtually all rear entry or “doggystyle” positions offer easy access to the clitoris for both for you and your partner. You or your partner can control the pace, so slow it down if he’s approaching orgasm and and you need more clitoral stimulation. Some rear entry positions to try:
Woman On Top Sex Positions
Woman on top positions give you and your partner easy access to the clitoris. From on top you can find the perfect spot to grind your clitoris on your partner. You can also lean backward and let him rub it with his thumb or fingers. Some woman on top positions to try:
The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT)
The CAT (or Cosmo CAT) was designed specifically for clitoral stimulation and mutual orgasm. It’s a revised missionary position that uses a thrusting and rocking motion to stimulation the clitoris with every motion. Here are instructions on performing this technique.
Step 1: Have her lie on her back and get between her legs like you are going to do the missionary position. However, your pelvis should be a bit higher than usual.
Step2: As you enter her, have her wrap her legs around your waist. They should be bent slightly and her ankles should rest on your calves.
Step 3: Carefully lean forward and rest your full weight on her. Keep your pelvis high.
Step 4: The shaft of your penis should be firmly pressed against her clitoris. No thrusting from you! Instead she thrusts upwards while you rock slightly backwards.
Step 5: Gently rock back and forth in sync with each other until orgasm.
So if you’re one of those ladies who just can’t quite get there, call your man and tell him ya’ll have some homework to complete tonight. I’m serious, you gotta keep trying ’till you get it right ’cause everyone has a right to the Big O.