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Why Is It Difficult for Women to Have an Orgasm?<\/h1>\n

According to reports, roughly 70% of women don\u2019t reach an orgasm during intercourse. Although that figure in itself is shocking, it also makes you wonder about how many women never orgasm at all (i.e., intercourse or not)!<\/p>\n

A lot of flack fall on men on why women don\u2019t experience an orgasm but truth be told, women have a lot to do about this as well whether they realize it or not.<\/p>\n

There are many reasons why women don\u2019t reach sexual climax. Some of them maybe men\u2019s faults but a lot can be because of her too\u2026<\/p>\n

1. Foreplay? What foreplay? <\/strong><\/h3>\n

Foreplay is extremely important. For women, making love begins in the mind and if you don\u2019t \u2018condition\u2019 her mind for sex, then chances are she won\u2019t be sexually reciprocating in bed too. Furthermore, women really do need more time than men to reach an orgasm; so foreplay is actually your<\/em> way of extending your own sexual stamina.<\/p>\n

2. She\u2019s thinking too much!<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Women are natural multi-taskers. Unfortunately, they\u2019re so used to thinking and doing several things at the same time that they find it hard to simply be \u2018in the moment\u2019 during sex. If most men can be very \u2018in the zone\u2019 during sex, women seem to have various thoughts running through their heads all the time (e.g., home chores that need to be done, kids\u2019 homework, dirty laundry, etc.).<\/p>\n

3. She\u2019s full of\u2026 insecurities<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Women have many body image issues. While you may adore her, her mind is probably worried about at least three different things as you undress her: Is the light revealing any cellulite? Are my \u2018love handles\u2019 protruding? Does he think my breasts are too small\/big? \u00a0 If body image anxiety is not in her head, then she may be thinking about things such as \u201cI didn\u2019t shower yet, I hope I smell good\u2026 especially down there.\u201d, or \u201cI didn\u2019t pee. I hope I don\u2019t embarrass myself.\u201d \u00a0 ALL these thoughts are making her focus on the wrong<\/em> things! It\u2019s taking attention away from sexual pleasure and into sexual insecurities. And when a woman is in this mode, it\u2019s almost impossible to her focus on reaching her own climax!<\/p>\n

4. She really doesn\u2019t know her own body<\/strong><\/h3>\n

There is a certain art form to making love to a woman\u2019s body. It really does have a lot of mysterious curves, spots and turns. Sadly, many women don\u2019t indulge in a lot of \u2018self exploration\u2019 when it comes to sex. As such, it\u2019s hard to guide you on what makes her feel good or which techniques really turn her on. And really, if she doesn\u2019t know her own body, how can you be expected to instinctively know what brings her pleasure, right? \u00a0 The best thing is\u2026 it\u2019s never too late to learn! Why don\u2019t you BOTH explore her body? Don\u2019t rush anything and try everything. See what turns her on best and use that knowledge to make her reach her orgasm. Make it your sexual quest!<\/p>\n

5. YOU\u2019re not paying attention!<\/strong><\/h3>\n

True, men are not mind-readers. Unfortunately, many women are not great communicators in bed as well so we have a little problem here. Compounding this problem is of course that favorite female bedroom habit of \u2018faking orgasms\u2019. As a result, YOU think that what you\u2019re doing is great when in reality you may not even be close! \u00a0 To solve this particular problem, try to develop a certain \u2018sexual code\u2019 between you two. For instance, a slight squeeze on your arm means \u201cYou\u2019re doing great! Pls. keep doing it!\u201d; while nails on your skin or arm mean \u201cenough of that!\u201d. You will receive more squeezes, however, if you know some important facts.<\/p>\n

6. YOU\u2019re changing \u2018techniques\u2019 too fast<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Men like to try different sexual positions and that\u2019s great but sometimes you may be changing just a bit too fast. Women need to get accustomed to a certain \u2018rhythm\u2019 before sexual pleasure begins to climb. If you keep shifting positions, she will either (a) never find the position that brings her an orgasm, (b) lose the sexual pleasure she was experiencing in the previous position or (c) be so frustrated that even if you go back to the same position, she may not be that sexually aroused again. \u00a0 So keep this in mind: when it comes to female orgasm it\u2019s not just location, location, location\u2026 it\u2019s also about repetition, repetition, repetition.<\/p>\n

Hopefully this list of potential reasons why your partner is not reaching an orgasm paves the way for discussion between the two of you. Don\u2019t focus on why she\u2019s not reaching an orgasm. Instead, focus on what you guys are going to do, so that she does reach her climax. That\u2019s a more positive approach and lot more fun too!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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