{"id":28308,"date":"2007-10-17T20:49:00","date_gmt":"2007-10-18T00:49:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/34.211"},"modified":"2007-10-17T20:49:00","modified_gmt":"2007-10-18T00:49:00","slug":"dont-interrogate-your-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tsjohnsononline.com\/sexwithts\/dont-interrogate-your-date\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t Interrogate Your Date. It&#8217;s a Date Not an Inquisition."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-37878\" src=\"http:\/\/tsjohnsononline.com\/lifestyle\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/9\/2007\/10\/interrogate-date-SWTS-1024x786.png\" alt=\"don't interrogate your date\" width=\"1024\" height=\"786\" srcset=\"https:\/\/tsjohnsononline.com\/sexwithts\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2007\/10\/interrogate-date-SWTS-1024x786.png 1024w, https:\/\/tsjohnsononline.com\/sexwithts\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2007\/10\/interrogate-date-SWTS-300x230.png 300w, https:\/\/tsjohnsononline.com\/sexwithts\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2007\/10\/interrogate-date-SWTS-768x589.png 768w, https:\/\/tsjohnsononline.com\/sexwithts\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2007\/10\/interrogate-date-SWTS-672x516.png 672w, https:\/\/tsjohnsononline.com\/sexwithts\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/51\/2007\/10\/interrogate-date-SWTS-1038x797.png 1038w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<h1>Don&#8217;t Interrogate Your Date<\/h1>\n<p><strong>Exhibit A:<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/link.brightcove.com\/services\/link\/bcpid1185043922\/bctid1252300710\"> Lindsay&#8217;s Date With Oliver on Essence&#8217;s 30 Dates in 30 Days<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Okay. I can be guilty of this one from time to time but I&#8217;ve learned to get the information I need without the guy feeling like he&#8217;s at the inquisition. Lindsay BADGERED this guy. LOL. She was in your face, overly aggressive, bordering on rude. She kept interrupting him. She made a lot of snide remarks. It was TOTALLY uncalled for.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, you need to know things about a man. And yes there are many questions you should ask a guy on a first date (more on that later) but there is a certain finesse involved that she totally missed. You should let the conversation flow naturally. Give him a chance to ask you questions. Laugh. Flirt. Be playful. You&#8217;re looking for love. Not a story to make the 11 o&#8217;clock news.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don&#8217;t Interrogate Your Date Exhibit A: Lindsay&#8217;s Date With Oliver on Essence&#8217;s 30 Dates in 30 Days Okay. I can be guilty of this one from time to time but I&#8217;ve learned to get the information I need without the guy feeling like he&#8217;s at the inquisition. Lindsay BADGERED this guy. LOL. She was in your face, overly aggressive, bordering [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":41330,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[175,230],"class_list":["post-28308","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships","tag-dating-tips","tag-essences-30-dates-in-30-days"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Don&#039;t Interrogate Your Date. It&#039;s a Date. Not an Inquisition. | Sex With T.S.<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Don&#039;t interrogate your date. It&#039;s a date. 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